An Observation
Today someone phoned me on my mobile. I didn't recognise the number so was a bit pancaked as to who it was.
I answered.
It was a lady, not an old lady, but not a young lady, but you'd have an idea if you heard her, aged lady.
I said "hello?"
She said "Hi, only me"
Thinking it was my Mom, I said "Oh hi"
*Silence*
Then she stuttered and said "Sorry I must have the wrong number, I'm looking for Olive..."
( I resisted the temptation to shout "Oh POP-EYEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!" )
So we hung up. But my Mom uses that *exact* gentle tone whenever she phones home. It's not a brash, colonol's "Hello. It's. Me." but rather a mothering "only me" - just simple, "you're-not-expecting-my-call-but-here-I-am-anyway".
Do all moms do that? Maybe it's universal. That is all.